22nd of October, 2024
Kia ora and Meri Kirihimete,
I begin to hear clients stressing about Christmas as soon as October rolls around. For many, it’s their first Christmas after leaving an abusive relationship. The emotional toll is overwhelming, and Christmas expectations can feel insurmountable. There’s a lot of anxiety about how they’ll make it special for their children, and how they’ll make ends meet when they’re already stretched beyond capacity.
When I first offer to arrange a hamper and some gifts, I can visibly see the weight lift from their shoulders. It’s incredible to witness - I hear the sigh of relief. In that moment, it feels like I’m helping to ease a burden they’ve carried for too long.
When I deliver the gifts and food parcels, I’m met with surprise and disbelief at the quality and quantity of what our donors and supporters have given. Many parents cry, they’re overcome by gratitude because they simply couldn’t afford to give their children Christmas presents on their own.
Police and other agencies report spikes in family violence between Christmas and the start of the school term.
RNZ, January 2024
It’s not just about the presents; it’s about the aroha and dignity that comes with it, to rekindle a sense of normalcy for families, and the excitement that every child deserves to wake up to on Christmas Day.
Donations of gifts or contributions to food hampers aren’t just material items; you’re reminding families that they’re not alone, that the community around them cares when they need it most, and that they deserve good things. The kindness and generosity of everyone who gives, so Aviva can get gifts into the hands of those who have endured so much, makes an enormous difference, and I’m just so proud to be part of it.
Aroha nui,
Chelsea
PS: The Christmas Gift Room at Aviva is now open to receive donations between 9am - 5pm, Monday - Friday.
Please no wrapped gifts, second-hand items, alcohol or toy weapons such as Nerf guns or water pistols.
You can also support our clients at Christmas by donating to Aviva here.